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Dirty Minds Mon 18 October 2004 16:41

DIRTY MINDS
Copyright 1993, 2004
By Atheem AlAsaad

After about of rollicking sex with a new lover, I got up, went to relieve myself and turned on the shower.
“Uh-uh.” I heard her say through the curtain, “What are you doing?”
She went on to complain that by taking a bath, I made her think I thought somehow she was dirty, or nasty. I hadn’t ever showered for that reason. I like the smell of sex on my heated body. I like to shower. I like the feel of a shower, I like to smell the soap, and I like to make love in a shower. Showers remind me of sexy… and sexy showers.
We men like to see our lovers walking or laying about naked after a shower. Most men I talked to were very much like me, had never given much thought to what she did after the loving.
“What are you suggesting?” I asked her.
She was very bitter, loudly protesting I had planned to shower to get rid of her odor or as a prophylaxis against getting a disease. By taking a shower immediately after sex, I made her feel ‘dirty’
“Why, why would my shower make you feel ‘dirty’?” She could not explain. Asking other women, I was astounded that so many women thought the same, or almost the same as she, that long ago, once; and former lover.
Though every woman expects a man to be clean and well groomed, women are at the same time offended if he showers or bathes after having sex with her, particularly if he showers at her place.
“Why?” I asked another lover. “If you have a clean body, including the ‘Coochie’, what odors am I washing off?”
“It’s just not right," She said and that was and is that.

“Not right.” It was simply a matter of appearances and perception. The women observed that only skanks and low-life women stink or have diseases. That when a man goes to bed with a woman, he ought to be able to stay in bed, finish the nesting ritual. Taking a shower is considered a breach of bedroom etiquette, unlike getting up to pee or to get a drink of water or have a snack.

Women are more offended by lovers who take showers after sex than they are with lovers who simply hit it and split. I even wondered what is a 'proper' interval after sex to put on ones clothes..

There is more than a grain of truth to what the women say. There are men who think sex is ‘dirty’, that the act itself is unclean and any woman with whom he has sex is ‘unclean’, whether she smells or not.
"Gotta wash this bitch off my ####" they think, fear or loathing driving them to do what is so offensive to so many women.
Such men many times are beaters of women, in that the woman is a symbol of his mental weakness and worst, after having participated in sex with her, he himself is 'unclean'. Casual girlfriends and #####s in particular suffer an inordinate amount of physical and mental abuse from men who think women [and the Coochie] are 'dirty'.
Don’t get me wrong: Coochie can and does sometimes stink, even after a woman has taken a good bath or shower. Those women, themselves afflicted by the “dirty Coochie” syndrome, fail to properly clean themselves, though they bath or shower daily.
Knowing I know better now, I stick, like glue to her and her bed, at least until she gets up.

Dirty Minds	Mon 18 October 2004 16:41
DIRTY MINDS Copyright 1993, 2004 By Atheem AlAsaad After about of rollicking sex with a new lover, I got up, went to relieve myself and turned on the shower. “Uh-uh.” I heard her say through the curtain, “What are you doing?” She went on to complain that by taking a bath, I made her think I thought somehow she was dirty, or nasty. I hadn’t ever showered for that reason. I like the smell of sex on my heated body. I like to shower. I like the feel of a shower, I like to smell the soap, and I like to make love in a shower. Showers remind me of sexy… and sexy showers. We men like to see our lovers walking or laying about naked after a shower. Most men I talked to were very much like me, had never given much thought to what she did after the loving. “What are you suggesting?” I asked her. She was very bitter, loudly protesting I had planned to shower to get rid of her odor or as a prophylaxis against getting a disease. By taking a shower immediately after sex, I made her feel ‘dirty’ “Why, why would my shower make you feel ‘dirty’?” She could not explain. Asking other women, I was astounded that so many women thought the same, or almost the same as she, that long ago, once; and former lover. Though every woman expects a man to be clean and well groomed, women are at the same time offended if he showers or bathes after having sex with her, particularly if he showers at her place. “Why?” I asked another lover. “If you have a clean body, including the ‘Coochie’, what odors am I washing off?” “It’s just not right," She said and that was and is that. “Not right.” It was simply a matter of appearances and perception. The women observed that only skanks and low-life women stink or have diseases. That when a man goes to bed with a woman, he ought to be able to stay in bed, finish the nesting ritual. Taking a shower is considered a breach of bedroom etiquette, unlike getting up to pee or to get a drink of water or have a snack. Women are more offended by lovers who take showers after sex than they are with lovers who simply hit it and split. I even wondered what is a 'proper' interval after sex to put on ones clothes.. There is more than a grain of truth to what the women say. There are men who think sex is ‘dirty’, that the act itself is unclean and any woman with whom he has sex is ‘unclean’, whether she smells or not. "Gotta wash this bitch off my ####" they think, fear or loathing driving them to do what is so offensive to so many women. Such men many times are beaters of women, in that the woman is a symbol of his mental weakness and worst, after having participated in sex with her, he himself is 'unclean'. Casual girlfriends and #####s in particular suffer an inordinate amount of physical and mental abuse from men who think women [and the Coochie] are 'dirty'. Don’t get me wrong: Coochie can and does sometimes stink, even after a woman has taken a good bath or shower. Those women, themselves afflicted by the “dirty Coochie” syndrome, fail to properly clean themselves, though they bath or shower daily. Knowing I know better now, I stick, like glue to her and her bed, at least until she gets up.